Sunday, 19 October 2008

Close encounters of the married kind

One evening last week, as the sun was nudging the horizon with it's big fat orange arse, I was heading to the shops, taking a shortcut through a park, when I passed a couple in their forties. The woman was walking behind the guy, and she was in mid-rant when I passed whilst the guy looked at his heavy feet. I picked up the following snippet of her rant - in that whiney tone that is both self-pitying and full of blame and hate at the same time - as I passed (pretty much word-for-word, although my memory isn't flawless):

"You don't know what I mean, you don't listen. Do you? You don't, you don't. Look, I'll do the same thing, but I'll not do the same thing. Yeah? You have to see it from my point of view. Did it occur to you..."

Then it trailed off as I passed.

Now to be fair, I didn't get the entire context of the conversation, but as I plodded onwards with the woman's blithering fading into the dusk behind me, it occured to me: Holy FUCK! I am so glad I'm single.

Is that what marriage is? Plodding along with some fucking woman dribbling self-contradictorary meanlingless shite at your heels? The guy looked broken down and despaired. Not surprising really. How could he react? Turn on her and tell her to shut up? That's domestic violence. Turn on her and slap her? That's domestic violence. Run away? That's domestic violence too ('emotional neglect') Say he wants a divorce? Bye-bye house, children and future income. He looked broken, resigned and pissed off.

I, on the other hand, gave thanks to fate for not inflicting matrimony upon thyself, and continued to the shop to buy some beers which I would be sharing with a couple of mates who were coming round that evening (one with his X-Box 360 in tow), whilst married-boy there was probably going to spend the evening with soap operas going in one ear and his wife's protracted ravings bludgeoning their way into the other.

These days a single man can embark on a brief stroll to the shops for a few cans of beer and encounter a hair-raising reminder of why he should damn well stay single.

42 comments:

Alexis Chervony said...

Awesome blog. I like the domestic violence part. Anything we do to retaliate will be filed under domestic violence for sure.

I love my freedom too much to give that up for some lovely broad that will eventually turn into a two-horned fire-breathing dragon diva who will weigh more than the state of Texas.

I'm only nineteen years old and I don't want to trade in the freedoms I have for the deprivation lifestyle of the married. Such as:

-Playing SOCOM FTB2 online with my PSP late at night instead of trying to have sex with a doughy women with a cave between her legs or trying to yield to the cries of some blasted infant.

-Keeping in touch and hanging out with some of my female friends whenever I feel like instead of pandering to only one women until death do us part.

- Buying DVD's, computers, TV's, audio equipment, paintball guns, video games and many other toys and electronics for myself instead of wasting it on her credit card bills, baby products, more of her credit card bills, annual jewelry and some more of her credit card bills.

Like I once read, "A bachelor is a man who never makes the same mistake once."

Anonymous said...

I was married, now divorced and won't ever do that again. I finally realized at the age of 35 peace within and without too is something all of us need, and that will always be out of reach of the average married man. Who needs to die prematurely of high blood pressure, heart attack or stroke because some harpy woman nags them or worse morning, noon and night? Who needs to be put out of his own home while some stranger is around your kids? By the way, even if they your kids and not the progeny of some bad boy your wife was playing hide the salami with behind your back? Oops, better buy one of those DNA paternity test kits! Who needs all this unnecessary drama, conflict, heartache and stress, let alone making divorce lawyers rich? Just being able to stargaze in the front yard, watch television or read a book without an argument is priceless to me. I can go out and stargaze, take a walk, go to the library or enjoy a movies without some succubus making me miserable. Men should heed the advice of the Apostle Paul. He advised men to say single, sane and free!

MarkyMark said...

EB,

This is such a good and true post; I see these beaten down schlubs all the time. I'm 46, never married, and never GOING to be married! No sir, I love & enjoy my freedom too much to surrender it to some bitch...

MarkyMark

darkbhudda said...

The first time I heard one of my girlfriends' do the contradictory rant I was very WTF?

We always go out. I'm tired of going out all the time.
Then a few sentences later.
We never go out. Are you ashamed to be seen with me?

I sat there for a couple of minutes because I'd heard about it but never experienced it for myself. Then I got up, said goodbye and walked out. I have better things to do than listen to insane female rantings.

Anonymous said...

I couldn't agree more with your comments on that post Duncan. I have been in and out of relationships for some time and I can only summarise British women as fat, miserable and lazy with high expectations from us (must have car, job and house). I know there are good women out there but I find they are few and far between. A lot of them are useless with money and are carrying some serious debt that they will never be able to pay off. I would be prepared to work hard if they gave any token of appreciation but they don't tend to these days. I sometimes wonder, what is in it for me?

Anonymous said...

You have hit on a universal truth here; one I learnt over 30 years of marriage. Women instinctively use guilt and blame to control and torment men. It is as natural to them as pissing. So it not a game plan it just comes out of them as nature intended.

Anonymous said...

They definitely excel at the guilt and shame tactics. It must be hardwired into them the same way breathing, pissing, shitting and every other body function is. I don't even think women are even aware they're doing it most of the time, and when they are they're out to draw blood figuratively if not literally. Men are starting to understand women too well, for women anyway.

Nobody's Fool Anymore

Anonymous said...

Good stuff Duncan.Again I'm amazed that guys want to marry these days.It's totally insane.Stay single,happy and free.

nevo said...

I have recently visited an office where every single one of them was a woman. I am not going to give a lecture about the sex discrimination act.
Only to mention this, as I passed one of the desks I spotted a large picture on top of one of the desks.
Nothing unususal about that but for the picture itself. It was of a large hairy dog with its tonge hanging out drooling all over.
No prizes for guessing what this grotesquely fat woman is using it for.

NEVO

Anonymous said...

Women are nothing more than overgrown children, the inferior gender.

Do not regard them too seriously. And do not marry them. Their words, their opinions and their approval are irrelevant.

Be indifferent to them, or have sport sex with none of the obligations and all of the precautions.

Anonymous said...

The stories I could tell from my 47 years of watching castrated married men......

Never, never, never would I do that to myself. Life is too short, and women are too nasty. It just isn't worth it. They have nothing to offer but a smelly hole, and you don't have to get married to have that. Why anyone would want a rancid gash full of warts and cancer is beyond me anyway.

Christopher in Oregon

Moo! said...

So...when will the femitwits begin screaming for the govt to do something. Namely govt regulation/prohibition of video games. The cows can't get dates when you guys are off having fun elsewhere.

Off to play WarRock! LOL

Bobby.N said...

Yes, I see these men in public too. It's sad & embarrassing. They look like pets to me... because thats the way women treat them. ("Sit, Roll over, Beg")

When I observe one of these endangered animals, I smile & think, "Give it time buddy... you'll evolve."

It's like an attractive war that each patriotic man wants to serve in, only to discover he was being used. If you're really lucky, you've dodged the draft.

-Bobby.N

Nietzsche said...

When I was in my mid twenties, chasing tail and pursuing women was of 75% importance in my life. Now in my mid thirties, chasing tail and pursuing women has slid to 25% of importance in my life. I imagine (and hope) by my mid forties that chasing tail and pursuing women will be no more than 10% of importance in my life.

That said, for me, investing in a woman would have proven to be a very poor and depreciating investment indeed.

Marriage is for suckers. Brothels are the financial derivatives of the marriage market. Reduce risk. Invest wisely. Enjoy a nag free life.

Cheers!

Anonymous said...

I’ve had plenty of women and relationships, but there is nothing more enjoyable then being able to do what you want, when-ever you want and not answering to any-body.

This is what relationships are, people say it’s a two way street, but that street always leads from one place and goes back to the same place, that place is; her, 'its all about her'.

Being able to do what you want, when you want (only restricted by budget) is far better then having to keep your women from getting bored.

Women have a great aversion for things men enjoy, for example computer games, but have no problems at all stating they love to sit and watch the most shitty soap crap that would make a grown man cry! The problem then becomes; the women will demand you spend time with her, this time usually involves watching or doing the shit she enjoys because ‘its all about her’. Shock horror if she ever comes up to you and says “hey I’d like to spend some time with you, teach me how to kick your ass in 1v1”.

What happens is she will bleat and moan in your ear to spend quality time, which usually means watching; ‘Emerdalle, Ally Mcbeal, Coronation street’ and the usual crap men love to hate.

It's no surprise Husbands know the in’s and out’s of the latest Soap stars, it’s because they have been subject to ‘its all about her’.

There is nothing better then getting up when you want, making what ever food you want, doing the washing up when you want, eating when you want, cleaning the house when you want, seeing who you want male or female, without going through a 3rd party first to see if any of it is ok.

Let’s go onto living with them. This is what you will get; 3 plates in the sink, nagged to death to the washing up. Carpet not vacuumed in 4 hours, nagged to do that fucking vacuuming. A shirt tossed over a chair, nagged to move it.
Watching man stuff on TV, nagged because she does'nt like that. Playing the PC or a game, nagged because you’re ignoring her. Going out with your mates, nagged because you’re clearly going to enjoy yourself without her. Garden not done? nagged to do it. Something needs fixing? nagged to get it fixed. Problems with Gas, electricity? Nagged she as to sort it out, or nagged because you allowed the situation to happen.

Women go out of thier way to find things to moan about, this is 100% Fucking TRUTH. A women will go out of her way to find something to give you shit about!

It really is a constant steam of shit, I make no jokes about it.

This is based on experience, vasts amounts, far too much for my young age to have to witness in one lifetime and so far, they are all a carbon copy of each other, they are all the same.

Stay single, live free, live happy and have no one to answer to when you want to do what the fuck you want to do!

Women do not make you happy! That is a lie a myth and total bull! Happiness comes from within, universal hidden truth!

Boulder Mt said...

I know there are good women out there but I find they are few and far between. A lot of them are useless with money and are carrying some serious debt that they will never be able to pay off. I would be prepared to work hard if they gave any token of appreciation but they don't tend to these days.


This is the truth, I almost caved in to the pressure of a woman that wanted to be married at any and all costs, bringing nothing but a shitload of credit card/school loan debt with a child. I have a city home and a country home and was actually thinking of sharing this with this woman. I am 41 and would most likely lost it all to this woman in a marital contract and she brings nothing but a hole in her crotch. I never will, freedom to do as I please and never lose my wealth and enjoy life like it should be enjoyed. I to have a lot of miserable friends with there aging bitchy wife controlling there every moment. These guys drink to forget what there involved in and I know half want out but feel imprisoned.

Anonymous said...

I happened to pick up the college rag and the front page had big article about a women's forum that took place. It was all about women rights blah fucking blah. I seethed because the girl population far, far exceeds the young men at this uni. I strongly feel that it's the young men who are in trouble now.

Anonymous said...

I see a lot of the end product of that in my new job ... formerly-married men who are now slaving away in a cube farm at a barely above minimum wage job because it's all they could get after their loving, gentler sex wife took them for all they had and destroyed their credit and earning potential into the bargain. And all of them say, to a man, NEVER AGAIN!

Martin said...

Why feel sorry for these losers? No one forced them to marry. Fuc em if they're that stupid!

Drronnie said...

I am starting a new blog about Thai women at http://drronnie.wordpress.com/
However it is to show that Thai women are gold diggers too and a warning for those who think that Thailand is a paradise when it comes to meeting women.

Anonymous said...

im 41 , never marriage , but lived with a woman in the past (2005) , it last 2 years..and after 1 year of that, she complain about everything ,if the car broke was my fault , if we did not find tickets for something was my fault, the dog saw the dor open and went to street, was my fault LOL , etc etc...Anything bad that happen was my fault...was strange that 2 years of my life! but i also want to say that i do not put all women in this category, because its not fair right ! i remenber with other girlfriends that i just had relationship but no lived together, they all complained too about things oofcourse, all womens do that LOL..but just the fact we do not living together give space to say.."ohh you angry with me today so its better we do no see today!...and that it, easy , something i could not do when lived with someone ! i have learned and with 41 now, no kids , still feel that to be Simgle , and have my house only for me, is the BEST decision i made im my life !

Boulder Mt said...

I have so many friends like this guy. I am 41, just had a girlfriend live with me for 1 1/2 years, she moved out while I was gone on business. I should count my blessing for this, if I was married I would be sunk, which is precisely what she probably was after. I have 2 houses and 3 cars and love to play golf and have a lot of freedom, she hates me for this. I just have to count my blessings of how many AW I have had and not been married and probably will never but I will not let them now this so as to see how the gamers play for your assets using the only thing they have to offer, a hairy end of a gut.

Anonymous said...

Dear men,
I'm a woman and I don't speak english very well. I read your ideas. I agree completly with you all about the possibility that a woman can use guilt to control a men ect.. it's an old game that our mother teached us.. and the mother of mother.. and so on.
So excuse for this!
BUT are you sure you don't use any game? Are you sure you are the poor perfect sane men? Please!! Ok.. if you are honest and you are able to see what's you game.. so we can talk about it!! It can be interesting ... and really honest.
A bad woman.

Anonymous said...

Anon 01 November 2008.

Anon this is no game. When a woman can divorce you because she is bored, is serious shit!

Husbands are nothing but slaves due to fucked up laws, the point being, living single then trying to please a fucking creature that will find many and I mean MANY things to moan about just for the sake of giving you shit, is a stupid business to get into, not only will you be sacrificing a large part of your life, all rolled into the bargain is nothing but a brat, who takes immense pleasure in giving men shit, it is in a women’s nature.

This is not a problem when you can tell her to shut the fuck up, i.e prior to marriage, but standing up for yourself in marriage is a one way ticket to getting but-fucked by the courts, hence any moaning nagging, shit flinging a women does, is only exemplified when you stick a ring on her finger, in essence becoming her bitch.

Fuck that, keep marriage for the suckers.


The game i play is not to marry ANY. I get great pleasure watching the women drift into my life, put on the oh so familiar girl act of being a angel, only to watch them drift back out when they know there tactics don't work. Because underneath it all her shit still stink's and 9 out of 10 times it's just a ploy to stick a ring on her finger and allowing yourself to be castrated when she turns into the usual pycho-nut that plagues the west.

Don’t get married EVER! This is born from experience, women are nice as they could possibly be, but once the ring goes on or they have you hooked, out come the claws, the nagging, the moaning, the fucking whinging and if your sucked in, they know they can get away with it, if you don’t marry them, they curb it, some curb it so well, you will never see it, hence more incentive to never ever marry.

Anonymous said...

I was never made to watch soaps. But I was made to listen to every aspect of her life at work. I cast of characters would be paraded before me each day. I had no idea who they where and no interest in them. I drove me crazy and also away.

Scott said...

"dear men" makes some good points, but our "games" dont become law.

Anonymous said...

Have video games replaced 'Gone Huntin' or 'Gone Fishin' as a man's escape hatch? At least in urbania/suburbania...

Anonymous said...

To the poster above. Women are the biggest game players & bullshitters in the majority of relationships. I've dated enough women & seen enough of my friend's relationships to know that this is fact. Sure there are guys that play games too but nowhere near the same level as women.

It honestly doesn't benefit the man much to get married, unless he really wants to start a family. Good friend of mine got married recently, doesn't get too enjoy any of his favourite hobbies/pastimes anymore, works like a dog & pretty much has zero time to himself...that in all honesty is a crap way to live.

Stick to being singlem enjoy your hobbies, mates & video games. Screw the bitches that want to fuck you over.

Anonymous said...

Men are in general in your face compared to women. We're not all saints, that is true. But we don't typically do the things women do to manipulate others.

Anonymous said...

Great blog.

Just the other night, I was in a bookstore reading a moto mag. When out of nowhere, some fat woman comes waddling around the corner barking at the guy sitting nearby, "Come on! Let's go! I want to leave now!" This 40-something guy tried to protest, only to be shouted down by his wife before folding his mag in resignation and walking off, head down. I shook my head in disgust. Never, upon never, will I marry an american woman.

I'm only 33, single, never married, have a nice house near the beach and a good job. I save my hard-earned money and have peace of mind. I take care of myself. No drama and no headaches. I can relax on my deck with beer in hand and dog by my side without being yelled at for some stupid reason. I can work out regularly and ride my motorcycle guilt-free. I don't have to worry about some woman taking me to the cleaners in divorce court through no fault of my own, losing my house, all my financial assets and poisoning my kids against me all the while being sent to the poorhouse for alimony and child support (for a kid that might not even be mine given that 20% of men who think they are the father aren't!). And if I'm really lucky, I'll get to fight a false domestic or child abuse charge that women in the States are now routinely filing against their husbands, without evidence, thanks to the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA). And given the fact that I need a security clearance for my job, that is one risk I am not about to take.

Seriously, after watching too many guys at work go through divorce, the only safe option for men these days is to never marry and to never have children. There is no economic or emotional benefit to marriage for men. The sad thing is, I would be a great father, but I refuse to risk my economic future and peace of mind with some psycho materialistic feminazi who sees men as merely a means to an end, a disposable accessory to be used and abused until no longer needed.

Women have only themselves to blame, and I refuse to play the rigged marriage game. You'd have to be a complete idiot to say "I do" these days. And fellas, beware of cohabitation. Our Aussie brothers are finding out the hard way how gov't is confiscating men's wealth on behalf of the women they break up with. It's not worth it.

The Dapper Swindler said...

Hello Duncan, I'm a devoted reader and follower and was wondering if I could link to you in my new blog. I'm a big fan of your writing, and your blog is relevant to the subject matter of mine, and as one of my inspirations for starting a blog I feel my blog should link to you.

Hmh said...

this one's not entirely a reply to A Bad Woman - it's also to all the other guys out there.

THe western world (U.S., Canada, Australia, Britain and so on) have had a culture for the last fifty years which has told women the following:

1) As a woman, you are equal. This means that not only do you have equal say in all decisions, it means that if you keep quiet (about anything) then you are submissive and therefore weak and a failure! So whatever you do, your voice MUST be heard.

2) Men are stupid (Yep, that's the message that the culture keeps saying). Men are easily led, lazy, stupid beings, and nothing that they do is worth noticing, much less praising them for. Treat men like garbage, because that's OK.

2a) Women, all women, are supposed to be gorgeous, no matter what, and the biggest possible social no-no is for anyone to call a woman unattractive in any way.

3) You have certain entitlements as a woman. You don't have to work for these: they are yours by right of birth alone. Education, work, marriage, children, whatever; you can do whatever you want. If you can't do whatever you want, that's oppression.

It's a load of crap. Unfortunately it's well supported by the system in a handful of key areas:

1) if you're married or legally co-habiting and there are kids, she gets everything. Kids, house, car, money. The lot.
2) if there's an allegation of sexual or physical abuse, chances are that the man will end up with a stark choice: agree to everything she wants in the divorce, or face charges and trial.
3) as a man in the western world, you can be had up for sexual discrimination for just about anything.
4) you can be divorced at will. It's far more likely that a woman will divorce a man than the other way around.

And so on... this culture of putting women first, children second, and men a distant third has alienated men. By that, I mean that men have become aliens inside their own countries. We don't belong, we don't matter, and we can lose everything at the drop of a hat.

So why give a damn?

Our women behave terribly. There's no safety (financial, sexual, paternal or even physical) in marriage anymore. There are still good women out there - as there always will be - but currently getting involved, for a man, is a minefield.

Guys, if you're checking out a prospect, something worth doing is checking for red flags. Even if you like her, if a red flag pops up - in debt, prone to drinking, kids she hasn't mentioned yet etc - get yourselves outta there.

Curiepoint said...

The issue is not who is perfect or more closely approximates perfection. The issue is how the "game" is unfairly rigged along gender lines.

By your post, you seem to imply that women using guilt and shame to manipulate men is natural, or at least acceptable by the universal fiat of it being a long-standing tradition. You acknowledge that this is the state of affairs between men and women; fine, all well and good. But refusal to play a "game" that one has little to no chance of winning except by similar under-handed tactics does not make men less than what we are, as you again seem to imply.

Life is not a game. The mere fact that you view it as such is proof enough that you do not take much of anything seriously.

Men will not join you on the playing field, because we have discovered only recently that there are more important things upon which to expend effort; like finding our own path to happiness.

As far as English not being your natural language, I can look past what you are saying, and into what you are trying to say. Yet I am still un-moved by your thoughts.

We are men. We do not care to seek your approval, because you are expendable to our lives; an accessory that brings no measurable quality to our beings.

Coffee Catholic said...

I learned early on not to be a ranting jerk to my husband. That broken look... it's the worst look I've ever seen in my life! It always tore my heart out. This is the man I love with every fiber of my being and I'm doing THAT to him?? Holy crap! Thankfully I always felt wickedly guilty after ripping into him and I'd go find him on the farm and throw myself into his arms and apologize for being mean and nasty to him and that I was totally wrong... I never made excuses for myself! My apologies were never fake ~ they were 100% genuine and they healed us both. (I did a lot of growing up in our first year of marriage.) Then, after apologizing to my dear man, I'd do something nice like bake him an apple pie and give him great... anyway, we won't go into that hehehe

No, it's just not worth being mean to people no matter who they are but especially the very person you share so much of your life with! Of all people my husband should be able to trust me and trust that he will not be hurt by me!!

Years ago before I was even married (only been married two years) I stopped hanging out with so many of my fellow women because the majority of the time they were trashing on their men and friends. It got so sickening hearing all of these personal details... and who knew what was the truth and what was lies?? I'm the same today. I see so many women totally trashing their husbands... either right in front of them or behind their backs. I get a lot of grief for being a virtual recluse but can you freakin' blame me??? I don't hate people. I love people. I love to be amongst friends but everything has changed so much and now I don't feel that I can really do that, ya know? I'm 33 years old and I feel like an old hermit woman. I feel so cut off from the world but how fun IS the world when it's so full of husband/friend bashing and trashing??? Why can't people keep things between themselves and the person(s) they have an issue with? I have very few friends these days ~ and I was a woman that always had LOADS of friends! It makes me sick how things are in this post-Feminist world. So I stay home 99.9% of the time and dote on my man and now our sweet new baby. As soon as I heal up from this c-section I'll be back to baking apple pies and all that other **good** stuff hehehehe!

Masculist Man said...

Duncan,

Yeah I'm staying single because of this shit.

I'll link to your site. Can you receipocate?

Mine is: http://mensrightsboard.blogspot.com/

Anonymous said...

Duncan (if your still out there) check out this article, you've been called out man

http://www.city-journal.org/2008/18_4_darwinist_dating.html

Anonymous said...

I suppose I should just let all this supportive man stuff stay the way it is, but I just want you to know it isn't quite the truth. (I'm a married woman so that will discredit me immediately.)

There are women who really love thier husbands and not because of their wallets or the chance to pull some guilt-inducing mind benders. I totally adore my husband for his wit, his ability to tolerate me and because he is an amazing guy. He's a superb dad as well, and our kids will always be grateful to him.

If you want to say I don't deserve him, you're right. But at least I know it!!

Ashen said...

Dude, what a great site! I figured all this shit out after a few rounds with some flat-out despicable women. I used to want to get married when i was in my 20's. I now thank God that i did run into those cunts. It opened my eyes to the reality of marriage, it's a fucking trap! I have been the guy on both sides of the game. I've been the "nice guy" she can turn to for emotional support, and i've been the romp in the sack. i can tell you from my experience that all women are the same. After they get done sucking off the football team for years, they want to find a nice fat wallet to provide for them a place to raise their children. (Do you think Bill Gates would ever get laid if he were a janitor??) Stay strong, don't get married to some fat whore and throw your life away. And think about it, they are all whores. What does a whore do? She takes money for sex. What does a wife do? She takes money, (jewelry and other expensive gifts), for sex. I have a married friend, whose wife treats him like total shit. Even going so far to tell him to "shut the fuck up" in front of me on numerous occasions. He does all the cooking, cleaning, and yardwork while she sits on her computer and plays World of Warcraft. Don't get me wrong, I love WoW but i'm not married and have plenty of free time to indulge. Its used to disgust me the way he just bent over for her, now it's just amusing. I know i'm ranting here but DAMN! it feels good to finally find some like minded individuals. Stay Strong, Stay Single!

Ashen said...

Dude, what a great site! I figured all this shit out after a few rounds with some flat-out despicable women. I used to want to get married when i was in my 20's. I now thank God that i did run into those cunts. It opened my eyes to the reality of marriage, it's a fucking trap! I have been the guy on both sides of the game. I've been the "nice guy" she can turn to for emotional support, and i've been the romp in the sack. i can tell you from my experience that all women are the same. After they get done sucking off the football team for years, they want to find a nice fat wallet to provide for them a place to raise their children. (Do you think Bill Gates would ever get laid if he were a janitor??) Stay strong, don't get married to some fat whore and throw your life away. And think about it, they are all whores. What does a whore do? She takes money for sex. What does a wife do? She takes money, (jewelry and other expensive gifts), for sex. I have a married friend, whose wife treats him like total shit. Even going so far to tell him to "shut the fuck up" in front of me on numerous occasions. He does all the cooking, cleaning, and yardwork while she sits on her computer and plays World of Warcraft. Don't get me wrong, I love WoW but i'm not married and have plenty of free time to indulge. Its used to disgust me the way he just bent over for her, now it's just amusing. I know i'm ranting here but DAMN! it feels good to finally find some like minded individuals. Stay Strong, Stay Single!

sparkwidget said...

Anonymous - remember, in the same Chapter where St Paul advised men to stay unmarried, he also said, "Do not become slaves to human beings." That applies as well, methinks.

Thanks for the site. I am astounded that somebody on this planet other than myself is furious at the feminists' destruction of dating patterns and thus the ascension of the alpha male, a male lampooned as ridiculous by the feminists, as the only legitimate type of male. Good work, feminism. You've defined all males as jocky, self-obsessed retards so thoroughly that the only males women will even consider dating are jocky self-obsessed retards. Sounds to me like they made the problem WORSE.

Blademonkey said...

Duncan, you just got a plug in a City Journal article by Kay S. Hymowitz. "Love in the Time of Darwinism", check it out. I think she just got the concept, not that she can see it clearly, but it's finally dawning on her and her ilk.

Woot, my brothers, woot.

Anonymous said...

Dear 'A bad woman"

Yes, I use game. It's called Grand Theft Auto, and now that I'm single, I play it any damn time I want to. No more game with woman for me.